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Archive for October, 2009

A Woman’s Heart

Have you heard of the song "Only A Woman's Heart" by Eleanor McEvoy with Mary Black? Nice song really. Did you noticed that when two women talk, they connect with their hearts more so than men.

I often eavesdrop on how my daughters talked to my wife and how they connect as women. Their conversations were something therapeutic! Furthermore, I have overheard couples sharing about problems and what I discovered is that, most of the time, the woman does not need answers! They just needed a pair of listening ears, best if the man listened with his heart. If the man can offer comfort, understanding and consolation, the woman would feel very contented and happy for she felt that someone listened! Anyway, I guess women already know what they got to do so no need for the man to advise!Received this short Poem and would like to post it here for us to take a peep into a woman's heart! By the way at the end is also a short Poem from a man too! Just compare them!

The Woman's Poem

Before I lay me down to sleep,

I pray for a man, who's not a creep,

One who's handsome, smart and strong.

One who loves to listen long,

One who thinks before he speaks,

One who'll call, not wait for weeks.

I pray he's rich and self-employed,

And when I spend, won't be annoyed.

Pull out my chair and hold my hand.

Massage my feet and help me stand.

Oh send a king to make me queen.

A man who loves to cook and clean.

I pray this man will love no other.

And relish visits with my mother.

A MAN'S POEM:

I pray for a deaf-mute gymnast nymphomaniac with Big tits who owns a bar on a golf course, and loves to send me fishing and drinking. This doesn't rhyme and I don't give a shit.



Nerds Offices

Not too long ago, my daughter and son-in-law had a short break in the US and she sent me some photos of their trip there!

I visited the US many years ago, in fact during that time, the only computer that I had was an Apple IIe! Yes, before the advent of the PC's and Bill Gates were just starting out I guess.

Although I visited Santa Brabara and the Silicon Valley then but there were no high-tech companies like Intel, Google, Yahoo or Ebay! For that matter even Steve Jobs Apple was no where to be seen then. I could not imagine myself so involved with the Internet and hence the big names in this Industry which I am sure many of you bloggers must have known! How nice it is to be able to drop into their offices and see how these nerds live and work! Here are some photos of these Giants of the Industry!

Intel Office

Google Office

Yahoo

Apple Office

Ebay Office

Old Computers

Last but not least is this famous House by Danielle Steel and that's where the word "Sugar Daddy" came from! You can take a guess at the story!

Danielle Steel


Jay Leno Speaks

Jay Leno

I love the Jay Leno Show don't you? I love his sense of humour but there is a very practical side of Jay Leno which although made to sound humourous yet they are so true! Take for example Jay Leno's Quote Of The Month shown below.

'With hurricanes, tornadoes, fires out of control, mud slides, flooding, severe thunderstorms tearing up the country from one end to another, and with the threat of bird flu and terrorist attacks, are we sure this is a good time to take God out of the Pledge of Allegiance?'

I am from the 40's and here is what Jay Leno got to say bout those who survived through the 1930's, 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's!!

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they were pregnant. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can and didn't get tested for diabetes. Then after the trauma, we were put to sleep on our tummies in baby cribs covered with bright coloured lead-base paints. We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, locks on doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had baseball caps not helmets on our heads.

As infants & children, we would ride in cars with no car seats, no booster seats, no seat belts, no air bags, bald tires and sometimes no brakes. Riding in the back of a pick-up truck on a warm day was always a special treat. We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle. We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and no one actually died from this. We ate cupcakes, white bread, real butter and bacon.

We drank Kool-Aid made with real white sugar. And we weren't overweight.............WHY? Because we were always outside playing............ that's why! We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on..... No one was able to reach us all day. And, we were OKAY. We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride them down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running onto the bushes a few times, we learned to solve this problem.

We did not have Play stations, Nintendo's and X-boxes. There were no video games, no 150 channels on cable, no video movies or DVD's, no surround-sound or CS's, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet and no chat rooms. WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them! We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents. We would get spankings with wooden spoons, switches, ping pong paddles, or just a bare hand and no one would call child services to report abuse.

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worm's did not live in us forever. We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays, made up games with sticks and tennis balls and, although we were told it would happen, we did not poke out very many eyes. We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just walked in and talked to them.

Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!! The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law! These generations have produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever. The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all.

If YOU are one of them, CONGRATULATIONS! You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated so much of our lives for our own good. While you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave and lucky their parents were. Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn't it?



Foie Gras Horror

To the Chinese, there are very little that they would not eat. The Westerners especially dog lovers are horrified to know that Chinese (especially those in China) eat dog meat! I guess every culture has its own special favourite food which is deemed offensive to others.

Never in my life have I eaten Foie Grass which is Fattened Goose Liver and it is a delicacy in Europe. In order to obtain this Fat Liver, the poor Geese suffered to death to provide the Europeans their passion in eating Foie Gras. Below are a series of photos showing how Geese are made to grow Fat Livers and eventually they die in the process. I hope after you have seen these photos you will be put off eating Foie Grass!

The Liver

Goose Liver

Serving

Goose Liver 2

Inserting Steel Tube

Steel Tube Insert

Confined Geese in Cages

Cage

Forced Feeding Round The Clock

forced Feeding

Swollen Feet due to prolong standing in cages

Swollen Feet

Damaged Anus of Geese

Damaged Anus

Finally the goose Died due to over-eating

Dead Goose

End Product A Fattened Liver

Fattened Liver

Foie Grass being served

Foie Gras

Well Folks! that's how you get Foie Gras! As much as the Chinese love for Shark's Fins caused the cruel death of many sharks, Foie Grass also caused the cruel deaths of hundreds of thousands of Geese! Perhaps it's time to consider avoiding certain food that caused cruelty to animals for as the saying goes when there is no demand the killing stops! For this reason, my daughter Dawn strongly objected to having Sharks Fins as a usual Chinese Wedding Dinner Dish when Sharlene got married!



Child Brides

Wedding

I have removed my recent post on Child Brides because it was NOT true! The young girls are all neices of the brides and they shared the joy of the occassion.

For details please visit the following links below. Thanks to Adam who highlighted it to me.

Child Brides 1
Child Brides 2