Most beautiful of Creation

I am referring to women for they are the embodiment of beauty. The most interesting subject be it to men or to women themselves. My friend done a post on this titled Unlocked The Mystery of Women and she highlighted one important aspect of it is the key or keyword “Love”. If your woman is giving you the cold treatment or throwing crying tantrums, she said you can bank on it that it is the issue of unmet needs associated with love! She also mentioned about women who are control freaks and you men are in more serious trouble. Interesting to hear the views from a woman!

Digressing on this issue, there was this piece of juicy news yesterday where a wife with her daughter and grand -daughter stormed the house of her 72 year old hubby’s 20 year old girlfriend and beat her up. Ended in the police station and being charged for assault. Strangely I noticed that women are their own worst enemies! Even when you hear two women quarrelling over a man, they usually call each other vulgar names connected to their private parts which then lead to pulling each other’s hair, clothing and slapping! Strangely the wife seldom attack the man! Perhaps to save face, for it is easier on her ego to blame the other woman stealing her man than to believe her man was lusting after the other woman. In addition to what I gather from most women is that it is the most difficult thing to accept i.e. the infidelity of her spouse as compared to other vices like gambling, drinking etc. I guess women associate sex with love and for men, most think that sex and love exists independent of each other, more like the sub-set in a union in mathematics!

Another remarkable thing many men do not realize is that when a woman dresses herself up it is more for other women to see, appreciate, stir up envy rather than for the men! Just listened to the chattering of a group of women over high-tea and you’ll understand what I mean. I guess it spurs each other on to dress better! Competition?

Many times when your spouse snuggles up to you in bed, she may be just asking for a love hug more than anything else. For the man, when he does that you know 90% of the time what he really wanted! Well I guess as long as we live, this vast, complex and yet exciting differences between the sexes will provide endless hours of studies and volumes of books to be written till eternity. :)



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4 Responses to “Most beautiful of Creation”

  1. ET on July 24th, 2007 11:29 pm

    I am not sure if it is too generalizing to say that women has locked themselves in a war of their own. Not only do they get out to impress each other, even their husbands become a point of comparison and benchmarking. Oh, my husband drives a bigger car than yours, my husband can afford more luxuries for me than yours etc.

    In contrast to the common theory that only men treat women like sex toys or a vase to boast, it gives me the impression that this is something that they led themselves into accepting as “fact”. Is it a universal fact? Or is it their self-defined “fact”?

  2. surjit on July 25th, 2007 1:39 am

    “Honour women! they entwine and weave heavenly roses in our earthy life.”
    Thanks Bokjae for your lovely post.My best wishes.

  3. bokjae on July 25th, 2007 4:26 pm

    Hi et, good point you have. This is a complex thing and I believe there are no simple answers.I guess from a christian point of view, women should realize that their fulfillment need not be in a man!

  4. bokjae on July 25th, 2007 4:27 pm

    Thanks surjit for having the same mind! Hey! see you often commenting on desiree’s blog! good to know you!

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